I have been in my quiet place.
Why?
To pray, think, reflect, and listen.
Sometimes, life can get so "busy," and somewhat chaotic, to the point where it seems to be on auto pilot. Walking a path that is familiar, almost repetitive, with no new inspiration, just the same old, same old. It's not easily recognized because it's routine, ingrained, and habitual. It becomes draining, unproductive, and eventually sucks the life out of you.
About fourteen months ago I had a total knee replacement. It had been on the cards for a few years and finally I got to a place where life had become miserable. I was unable to walk properly, and I was suffering with pain. It put me on my hiney to say the least. It was tough, painful, and a long recovery. It also threw me out of the day to day life I was living and I felt robbed of "familiar" routines that I was used to. My energy was taken up with recovery and being able to walk again. That meant physical therapy two or three times a week, and at least twice daily at home. It was painful. There was not a lot of sleep. My life as I knew it was disrupted.
I kept trying to get back on the same path I was on. It wasn't working. Then, on one of the many sleepless nights I had, I had divine inspiration for my new book. I actually got out of the bed and wrote it down so I wouldn't forget it. Sort of what I do when I get a song idea in the middle of the night. Only this was a book. It was about reseting emotions and thoughts around old habits, behaviors, relationships, and changing them for the better.
"The One Minute Emotional RESET."
Little did I know how this tiny book of inspiration would actually change my life and the path that I was on.
And yet, realizing a change of direction was in my future, did not happen overnight. It took doors closing, other doors opening, routines becoming so impossible to maintain that they dried up. Being forced to stop my mind going in a hundred directions and begin to search for answers. I ran into walls and doors that looked pretty good before though now they looked like they were blocking out what had been and I had to work out why.
In writing this book of divine inspiration, I finally had my eyes open to the fact that you have to shovel out what's been done, or not working anymore, to make way for new things to prosper. In fact Ecclesiastes 3:1 says:
"To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven."
This is followed by a well-known passage listing various times and seasons in life, such as "a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted."
It was time to change direction. Wow! Why does it take so long to realize when the season is done and God has something new and exciting waiting for you to wake up and step into!
Letting go of anything, whether it's been good, or bad, isn't easy. "To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven." And, sometimes the season looks good! When this happens it's hard to see the season is done. Though is it just a perception that it's still "good?" Nothing stays stagnant, everything is mean to grow and change. What works for a while may not always be the case. When disruption, or interruption happens, that's a sign. A sign it's time for a change and to recognize we need to pivot, and move on. I'm plucking up what I have planted, and am replanting, fresh new seeds that will sprout into the next season God has planned for me.
What is disrupting or interrupting your life right now? Is it a behavior, a relationship, a habit, a slump, or dissatisfaction with a situation that's not working for you anymore?
Letting go makes room for new beginnings, inspiration, and growth.
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Staying on track with mindfulness is a powerful tool for maintaining focus, reducing stress, and enhancing overall well-being. To cultivate mindfulness, it's essential to regularly set aside dedicated time for practices such as meditation, prayer, or deep breathing exercises. This deliberate commitment to mindfulness allows you to develop the skill of observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment.
Furthermore, integrating mindfulness into your daily life by practicing awareness during routine activities like eating, walking, or working can help you stay attuned to the present moment. Consistency is key; by making mindfulness a regular part of your routine, you can foster a greater sense of inner calm, improve your ability to concentrate, and better navigate life's challenges with a clear and centered mind.
The concept of mindfulness as it is understood in contemporary psychology and meditation practices is not explicitly mentioned in the Bible. However, there are biblical verses that touch upon the themes of being present, focused, and attentive in a spiritual context.
One such verse is found in the New Testament, in the book of Philippians, chapter 4, verse 8 (NIV):
"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."
While this verse doesn't use the term "mindfulness," it encourages believers to direct their thoughts and attention toward positive, virtuous, and uplifting things. It underscores the importance of maintaining a positive and focused mindset, which aligns with some of the principles of mindfulness practices aimed at cultivating awareness and presence in the present moment.
Practicing mindfulness through prayer can be a deeply spiritual and enriching experience, combining the benefits of mindfulness with a connection to one's faith. Here are steps to practice mindfulness using prayer:
- Select a Quiet Space: Find a quiet, peaceful space where you can pray without distractions. This can be a designated area for prayer or any place where you feel comfortable and focused.
- Choose a Prayer: Select a prayer that is meaningful to you. It can be a traditional prayer from your religious tradition or a personal prayer that reflects your thoughts and feelings. The Lord's Prayer, the Serenity Prayer, or the Prayer of St. Francis are examples that many find suitable.
- Set an Intention: Before you begin, set an intention for your prayer. This can be a specific concern, a desire for guidance, or simply the intention to be present and mindful during your prayer.
- Focus on Your Breath: Begin by taking a few deep breaths to center yourself. Pay attention to the sensation of your breath as you inhale and exhale. This helps you become present and calm.
- Recite the Prayer Slowly: As you recite the prayer, do so slowly and intentionally. Pay close attention to the words and their meaning. Consider how each word or phrase resonates with you personally.
- Engage Your Senses: If your prayer includes physical actions, such as lighting a candle, holding beads, or making specific gestures, engage your senses fully. Notice the texture, color, and scent of the objects you are using.
- Stay Present: If your mind starts to wander, gently bring your focus back to the prayer. It's normal for thoughts to arise; the key is to acknowledge them without judgment and return to the prayer.
- Reflect on the Prayer: After completing the prayer, take a moment to reflect on your experience. How did it make you feel? Did you gain any insights or clarity?
- Express Gratitude: If your prayer includes expressing gratitude, take time to think about what you are thankful for. This can help foster a sense of mindfulness and appreciation.
- Practice Regularly: Like any mindfulness practice, consistency is essential. Try to incorporate this mindful prayer into your daily or weekly routine, adapting it to your needs and schedule.
Mindful prayer allows you to deepen your spiritual connection while also reaping the benefits of mindfulness, such as reduced stress and increased mental clarity. Over time, you may find that your prayer practice becomes a source of inner peace and strength in your life.
While meditation seems a little "woo woo" to some meditation is mentioned in the Bible. Biblical meditation is a spiritual practice rooted in the Christian faith that involves deep contemplation and reflection on specific passages, verses, or teachings from the Bible. Unlike some Eastern meditation practices that focus on emptying the mind, biblical meditation involves filling the mind with God's word and seeking to understand it more deeply, apply it to one's life, and connect with God on a personal level.
Here are key elements and practices associated with biblical meditation:
- Selecting a Scripture: Biblical meditation typically begins with selecting a specific passage, verse, or theme from the Bible. It could be a verse that speaks to a personal issue, provides guidance, or offers comfort.
- Quiet Reflection: Find a quiet and contemplative space where you can focus your thoughts without distractions. This might be a dedicated prayer space or simply a peaceful environment.
- Repeated Reading: The chosen Scripture is often read multiple times. Each reading allows for a deeper understanding of the text and a chance for its message to resonate more profoundly.
- Contemplation and Reflection: During meditation, individuals contemplate the meaning of the scripture, seeking insights into its relevance to their life, values, and relationship with God. This may involve asking questions and reflecting on how the passage can be applied to one's daily experiences.
- Prayer: Biblical meditation is typically accompanied by prayer. This can involve expressing gratitude, seeking guidance, or asking for wisdom and understanding related to the scripture being meditated upon.
- Listening to God: Part of the process is listening for God's guidance or presence in response to the meditation. This may involve stillness and openness to insights or a sense of God's presence.
- Application: After meditation, individuals strive to apply the insights gained from the scripture to their daily lives. This might involve making changes in behavior, seeking forgiveness, showing gratitude, or finding strength in difficult times.
Biblical meditation serves as a way to deepen one's relationship with God, gain spiritual insights, and find comfort, guidance, and wisdom within the Bible's teachings. It's a practice that varies among individuals and Christian denominations but shares the common goal of seeking a deeper connection with God through the study and contemplation of His word.
Consistency is hard enough at any time let alone when the going gets tough. Our brain is not geared to like to work hard in fact, our brains are wired to conserve energy, which often leads to taking the path of least resistance. This natural inclination toward laziness can make it tempting to avoid challenges or fall into easy routines, as our minds prioritize short-term comfort over long-term growth.
Our brains are also geared towards patterns, especially familiar patterns because they offer a sense of safety and predictability. Recognizing and repeating known patterns allows the brain to operate more efficiently, reducing cognitive load. When faced with new information or experiences, the brain must work harder to process and adapt, which requires more energy. This is why habits, even ones that may not serve us well, can be so hard to break—they provide a mental shortcut that our brains prefer over the uncertainty of change.
However, this preference for familiarity can also keep us stuck in unproductive or even harmful cycles. When our brains become too comfortable with certain patterns, we may resist new opportunities or challenges that could lead to growth. This aversion to change is rooted in our desire for stability, but it can limit our potential. To grow, it's essential to push beyond the comfort of the familiar and challenge our brains to embrace new experiences, fostering resilience and adaptability.
So, when we are faced with adversity or tough times, our brains like to check out. The extra load of trying to maintain the familiar while dealing with a problem can send it off the rails. Suddenly, your determination to keep a healthy routine is now overruled by your brain trying to deal with a new situation and adapt to it. In times of adversity, our brains naturally resist consistency because they prioritize survival over routine.
When faced with stress or uncertainty, the brain shifts into a heightened state of alertness, focusing on immediate threats rather than long-term goals. This fight-or-flight response, designed to protect us, can make it difficult to stick to regular habits or maintain discipline. Instead of consistency, the brain seeks quick solutions and relief, often leading to impulsive decisions, procrastination, or avoidance.
Additionally, adversity disrupts the brain’s sense of stability, making it harder to focus on consistent actions. The mental energy needed to manage stress and navigate challenges often depletes the cognitive resources required for discipline and routine. As a result, maintaining consistency can feel like an uphill battle, as the brain prioritizes coping mechanisms over sticking to plans. Overcoming this instinct requires conscious effort and strategies that remind the brain of the long-term benefits of consistency, even when short-term comfort is tempting.
So, what's the answer to keeping your consistency in your business, health, and daily routines, when tough times happen? Overcoming the brain’s resistance during tough times requires intentional strategies that help reinforce consistency and resilience. Here are some effective methods:
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness helps to calm the mind, reduce stress, and increase awareness of negative thought patterns. Meditation trains the brain to stay present, making it easier to manage anxiety and maintain focus on long-term goals rather than short-term discomfort.
- Break Goals into Small Steps: When facing adversity, large tasks can feel overwhelming. By breaking goals into smaller, manageable steps, you reduce the mental burden and make it easier for your brain to commit to consistent action. Celebrating small wins along the way can also boost motivation and reinforce positive behavior.
- Establish Routines: Creating a consistent daily routine can provide stability and a sense of control during chaotic times. Even small rituals, like morning exercise or a set bedtime, can anchor your day and help the brain navigate uncertainty by providing familiar structure.
- Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations: During tough times, negative self-talk can easily take over, reinforcing the brain’s instinct to avoid challenges. Replacing these thoughts with positive affirmations helps to shift your mindset, encouraging resilience and a commitment to your goals, even when it's difficult.
- Seek Support and Accountability: Sharing your challenges with a friend, coach, or support group can provide the encouragement needed to stay consistent. External accountability adds pressure to follow through on commitments, helping to counteract the brain’s urge to take the easy way out.
- Focus on the ‘Why’: Reminding yourself of the deeper reasons behind your goals can strengthen your resolve. When you reconnect with your purpose, it becomes easier to push through discomfort, as the brain recognizes the value of staying consistent despite adversity.
By using these strategies, you can train your brain to prioritize consistency and resilience, even when facing tough times.
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In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of responsibilities, ambitions, and endless to-do lists. But what happens when God intervenes and calls us to rest? This divine pause can be both challenging and transformative, offering a profound opportunity to reconnect with our true selves and with Him. I had to explore the beauty and purpose behind those moments when God made me rest and discover how to embrace this sacred gift with an open heart and mind.
Six months ago, I had a total knee replacement. I went into this surgery thinking I would recover easily and quickly like I usually do, though it didn't quite go like that. What I didn't realize is that this was one of the top five major traumatic surgeries you can have, and my recovery was going to be anything but painless and quick. I fought hard to get back to my office and what I thought I should be doing. My leg wouldn't tolerate sitting in the chair and my body was recovering from trauma so it wanted to sleep, rest, and recuperate.
MY MIND WAS AT ODDS WITH MY BODY!
I struggled, fought, felt guilty, and even told myself I was just procrastinating! Yet, none of that was true. After a couple of months, I stopped fighting and telling myself what I wasn't or should be doing, and started listening. I realized after praying, and listening, this was a time to "pause" and reflect on exactly what I was doing, and did I need to make yet another change in my life. Of course, just about when I decided to do this, I got the dreaded Covid again and had to rest.
Recognizing the signs that God is calling you to rest can be crucial for maintaining spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being. Here are some common signs that might indicate it's time to pause and rest:
1. Persistent Fatigue
Feeling constantly tired, even after a full night's sleep, can be a signal that you need to slow down and rest. It's a reminder to take care of your body and spirit.
2. Increased Stress and Anxiety
Heightened stress and anxiety levels can be a sign that you're overextending yourself. God might be nudging you to find peace and solace in Him.
3. Illness or Health Issues
Frequent sickness or health problems can be a wake-up call to prioritize rest and self-care. Your body needs time to heal and rejuvenate.
4. Loss of Joy and Passion
When activities that once brought joy and fulfillment start to feel burdensome, it may be time to take a step back and recharge.
5. Difficulty Hearing God's Voice
If you find it hard to hear God's guidance or feel disconnected in your prayer life, it might be a sign that you need quiet, undistracted time with Him.
6. Irritability and Short Temper
Being more irritable or losing patience easily can indicate burnout. It's a signal to slow down and seek peace and rest in God's presence.
7. Lack of Productivity
Struggling to stay focused or productive can be a sign that your mind and body need a break. Rest can help restore clarity and efficiency.
8. Neglect of Personal Relationships
If you notice you're neglecting relationships with family, friends, or even your relationship with God, it might be time to pause and invest in these connections.
9. Feeling Overwhelmed
A sense of being overwhelmed by life's demands is a clear indication that you need to step back, breathe, and rest.
10. Circumstantial Obstacles
Sometimes, circumstances such as canceled plans, delays, or unexpected free time can be God's way of providing you an opportunity to rest.
11. Scriptural Reminders
Coming across Bible verses or teachings that emphasize rest can be a divine reminder to heed this important aspect of spiritual discipline.
12. Inner Promptings
A persistent inner feeling or sense that you need to slow down can be the Holy Spirit urging you to rest and recharge.
13. Nature and Creation
Observing the natural world and its rhythms can be a gentle reminder of the importance of rest and renewal, as even creation itself follows cycles of rest.
Recognizing these signs and responding to them by taking time to rest can help restore balance and find a deeper connection with God. Remember, rest is not a luxury, but a necessary part of a healthy and spiritually fulfilling life.
So, next time you're feeling like you're trying to walk through mud, or pushing on the door so hard it's exhausting, take a moment to reflect and see whether it's time to embrace a Divine pause, rest, and see where God leads you next!
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The first words out of my mouth after I walked in was "Honey I feel like a fake!"
I had walked in for surgery with no limp, no walker, no cane, no wheelchair, so why was I here? Everybody else had not walked in without help of some sort.
I knew that answer.
A knee replacement. A constant cry from my orthopedic doctor for seven years!
I did the gel shots and they worked at first, but then in June they worked no more.
I couldn't exercise the way I used to.
I couldn't walk the mountain.
My body was being pulled out of alignment because my left leg was out of alignment because of the chronic arthritis, and the bone on bone situation in my knee.
I would go to the chiropractor and she would put me back only for my leg to pull me right back out.
My brain would tell me I was ok, it was ok, but somewhere that voice inside said, "Nope, you ain't OK!"
Turns out my brain was used to, and was suppressing, the actual pain I was feeling.
No wonder, I was tired, dragging along without motivation, purpose, intent, and struggling to get through each and every day.
My normal exercise routine was out the window, I was beat by five o'clock, my memory and mind was foggy, and I told myself it was managing a large family, with work and life balance.
All baloney, and what my mind had got used too!
"I feel like a fake!" That statement came from all of my brains efforts to "keep calm and carry on." Don't rock the boat. You're fine, take a pain pill.
Well none of it was fake, my brain was giving me misinformation and I was buying it.
Twenty-four hours after surgery, I have less pain, and my mind is sharp again. My first thoughts this morning was, "It's November 1st! The Thirty Day Abundance Challenge."
No more drowning in repressing pain and the feelings that came with that.
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