10 Tips on How to Have It All!

“You can have it all. Just not all at once.” — Oprah Winfrey



It's not impossible to "have it all" though most of the time it's easy to feel like you can't. In my experience, I know that re-programming the "superwoman mentality" that is in all of us at a young age, is sort of normal and happens because our parents worry about us hurting ourselves, or getting in over our heads. I love the song "Always Trust Your Cape" written by Guy Clark because it's a story of trusting our inner being and our instincts.

The Law of Deliberate Creation says we can have it all, though there are some parameters that need to be in place. I know that if my mind is in a negative place, I will not be trusting my instincts or my cape, I'll be doubting them. In fact, I may not even start to deliberately create what I desire because my belief is not at the same level, therefore I'm sabotaging myself to even start let alone create. So, how do you get back into a positive frame of mind to create what you desire?  Here are five tips to help you.

5 tips on not creating from a negative place

  • Acknowledge your feelings: Allow yourself to feel your negative emotions. Acknowledge them and don’t suppress them.
  • Reframe the situation: Find a positive spin on what initially appeared to be a negative situation. 
  • Ask for help: Don’t be afraid to reach out to others for support. Having someone to talk to can help you work through your emotions and gain perspective.
  • Use art to express yourself: Creating art can be a great way to express your emotions and process your thoughts.
  • Keep your eye on the big picture: Even though it might be hard to see past the current situation, try to remember that things will eventually get better. Focus on your long-term goals and the positive aspects of your life.

The laws of the Universe work together and just as the Law of Attraction says what we focus on expands, it ties into the Law of Deliberate Creation. Because we create from our focus even when that focus is on the negative side of things. When you start to focus on what you desire, you are applying the Law of Deliberate Creation. 

There's no judgment on what you create, though there are consequences to your intent. Being in full alignment is necessary, so it's important to release any limiting conditions or resistance, so you are giving off the vibration you desire. Here are five tips on how to create and manifest your desire using this law.

5 tips on the Law of Deliberate Creation

  • Visualize your desired outcome: Take time to imagine exactly what you want to manifest in your life. Visualizing your desired outcome helps to manifest it into reality.
  • Believe in yourself and your power to create: Affirm that you have the power to create the life you want and believe in yourself.
  • Be clear about what you want: Take the time to understand what it is that you truly want and be as specific as possible.
  • Take action: Take actionable steps to bring your desired outcome into reality.
  • Let go of the outcome: Release any attachment to the outcome and trust that you will achieve it. Make sure to stay focused on the present moment and enjoy the process.

I practice "The Belief Equation" because when your desire and your belief are at the same level of vibration, you will achieve your dreams and goals. More about that in a future book!

Essential Oils to use when needing to focus and align with your desires are Lavender, Lemon, and Magnify Your Purpose.  You can get them HERE!

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That's it for today!

Remember, always be a Tigger!

Ta Ta for now......................