Consistency is hard enough at any time let alone when the going gets tough. Our brain is not geared to like to work hard in fact, our brains are wired to conserve energy, which often leads to taking the path of least resistance. This natural inclination toward laziness can make it tempting to avoid challenges or fall into easy routines, as our minds prioritize short-term comfort over long-term growth.
Our brains are also geared towards patterns, especially familiar patterns because they offer a sense of safety and predictability. Recognizing and repeating known patterns allows the brain to operate more efficiently, reducing cognitive load. When faced with new information or experiences, the brain must work harder to process and adapt, which requires more energy. This is why habits, even ones that may not serve us well, can be so hard to break—they provide a mental shortcut that our brains prefer over the uncertainty of change.
However, this preference for familiarity can also keep us stuck in unproductive or even harmful cycles. When our brains become too comfortable with certain patterns, we may resist new opportunities or challenges that could lead to growth. This aversion to change is rooted in our desire for stability, but it can limit our potential. To grow, it's essential to push beyond the comfort of the familiar and challenge our brains to embrace new experiences, fostering resilience and adaptability.
So, when we are faced with adversity or tough times, our brains like to check out. The extra load of trying to maintain the familiar while dealing with a problem can send it off the rails. Suddenly, your determination to keep a healthy routine is now overruled by your brain trying to deal with a new situation and adapt to it. In times of adversity, our brains naturally resist consistency because they prioritize survival over routine.
When faced with stress or uncertainty, the brain shifts into a heightened state of alertness, focusing on immediate threats rather than long-term goals. This fight-or-flight response, designed to protect us, can make it difficult to stick to regular habits or maintain discipline. Instead of consistency, the brain seeks quick solutions and relief, often leading to impulsive decisions, procrastination, or avoidance.
Additionally, adversity disrupts the brain’s sense of stability, making it harder to focus on consistent actions. The mental energy needed to manage stress and navigate challenges often depletes the cognitive resources required for discipline and routine. As a result, maintaining consistency can feel like an uphill battle, as the brain prioritizes coping mechanisms over sticking to plans. Overcoming this instinct requires conscious effort and strategies that remind the brain of the long-term benefits of consistency, even when short-term comfort is tempting.
So, what's the answer to keeping your consistency in your business, health, and daily routines, when tough times happen? Overcoming the brain’s resistance during tough times requires intentional strategies that help reinforce consistency and resilience. Here are some effective methods:
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness helps to calm the mind, reduce stress, and increase awareness of negative thought patterns. Meditation trains the brain to stay present, making it easier to manage anxiety and maintain focus on long-term goals rather than short-term discomfort.
- Break Goals into Small Steps: When facing adversity, large tasks can feel overwhelming. By breaking goals into smaller, manageable steps, you reduce the mental burden and make it easier for your brain to commit to consistent action. Celebrating small wins along the way can also boost motivation and reinforce positive behavior.
- Establish Routines: Creating a consistent daily routine can provide stability and a sense of control during chaotic times. Even small rituals, like morning exercise or a set bedtime, can anchor your day and help the brain navigate uncertainty by providing familiar structure.
- Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations: During tough times, negative self-talk can easily take over, reinforcing the brain’s instinct to avoid challenges. Replacing these thoughts with positive affirmations helps to shift your mindset, encouraging resilience and a commitment to your goals, even when it's difficult.
- Seek Support and Accountability: Sharing your challenges with a friend, coach, or support group can provide the encouragement needed to stay consistent. External accountability adds pressure to follow through on commitments, helping to counteract the brain’s urge to take the easy way out.
- Focus on the ‘Why’: Reminding yourself of the deeper reasons behind your goals can strengthen your resolve. When you reconnect with your purpose, it becomes easier to push through discomfort, as the brain recognizes the value of staying consistent despite adversity.
By using these strategies, you can train your brain to prioritize consistency and resilience, even when facing tough times.
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When you have to make a change in your life, it comes down to choosing to do that.
Our choices are important, every one of them.
Why?
Because your choice will ultimately give you your outcome in any situation.
Changing your thoughts simply comes down to making the decision that you don't desire something in your life anymore.
Making that decision to choose differently may take some time to recognize this is not how you desire to live your life. Though, when you make that decision it is generally made very quickly. The reason for that is that you have finally had enough of the situation, the attitude, or the behavior. In under a minute, you can and will embrace the change you desire and then you will end it.
Recently, I made a huge decision in my own life. A habit I had mulled over for a very long time though when I chose to change I did so in just a moment or two.
Often it is recognizing finally you don't desire to keep this habit or attitude and it's done. Gone. Over. You chose to end it.
Years, or should I say decades ago I picked up the horrible habit of smoking. I was going through a divorce with two small children, singing for my supper, and not getting a lot of spare time or sleep. The "gals" I sang with in a four-girl cabaret act all smoked. I found myself joining them and suddenly, or not so suddenly, I had a habit that I didn't desire that was detrimental to my health and my voice. Yet, I smoked for several years even though I hated it.
When the moment came that I hated the habit enough to quit, that happened in under a minute. I made the decision and I believe because of prayer I never picked one up again. It was ended.
I embraced the change, I made the choice, and I conquered the challenge of not smoking a cigarette ever again.
I felt so free!
When you have a strong desire to change a habit or attitude, the freedom that comes from choosing to do so is incredible!
Habits are just that. A way of living that has become normal even if it is something you don't desire. Breaking the habit comes from recognizing it and then choosing to end it.
Your mind is a powerful part of your body. Your mind controls your brain where all these habits are formed. Your brain, of course, doesn't like change which causes us to take time to overrule it with our conscious mind.
The great part is your mind is in control and can make the change when it fully decides to.
What habit or attitude would you like to change?
Remember.
You can embrace the change, make the choice, and conquer the challenge.
I'll leave you with a verse from the bible that says it all!
Philippians 4:13:
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
This verse emphasizes the strength and empowerment that comes from faith in Christ, which can be applied to embracing change, making important decisions, and overcoming difficulties.
In the last few months, as I have been recovering from knee replacement surgery, I have had to do a lot of "mind over matter." There have been times of incredible pain, frustration, feeling hopeless, physical therapy that made me cry two or three times a week, and the overall feeling of what happened to life as I once knew it.
I'm grateful to be able to walk better and get on with life, as well as all the training and study I've done in the last ten years about how my thoughts affect my emotions and my actions. Oh, I have not been perfect, and struggling with my mind trying to stay positive and look to a better future with more mobility, has not been easy. It has been "MIND OVER MATTER!"
So, what does that mean? In our fast-paced, ever-changing world, the concept of "mind over matter" has become a popular and maybe overused phrase. At its core, this phrase embodies the idea that your thoughts, beliefs, and mental strength can have a profound impact on your physical reality. Whether it’s overcoming physical challenges, enduring pain, or pushing beyond perceived limitations, the power of the mind is a crucial element in achieving extraordinary feats. But what does "mind over matter" really mean, and how can you harness this power in your everyday life?
Understanding "Mind Over Matter"
"Mind over matter" suggests that mental strength and determination can transcend physical barriers. It’s a concept rooted in various philosophical, psychological, and spiritual traditions. Historically, it has been associated with the belief that the mind holds the power to shape reality. This idea is not just a philosophical musing but is supported by scientific evidence as well.
For instance, if you believe you can produce a certain, or desired result this can lead to real physiological improvements, highlighting the influence of the mind on the body. This truly is using your mind and your belief system to produce the results you desire.
From a psychological perspective, mental resilience – the ability to bounce back from adversity – is the belief and expectation of "mind over matter." If you can develop high mental resilience you will navigate life's challenges with greater ease, maintaining a positive outlook and finding solutions where others see only obstacles. This resilience is not an inherent trait but a skill that can be cultivated through practices such as mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral techniques, and fostering a supportive social network.
The Role of Mental Resilience
Mental resilience is the cornerstone of "mind over matter." It involves maintaining flexibility and balance when faced with stressful situations. When you are resilient you are not immune to difficulties though can recover from setbacks more quickly. You begin to view challenges as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable barriers. This mindset enables you to stay focused, motivated, and persistent even in the face of adversity.
One of the key aspects of building mental resilience is cultivating a positive and realistic outlook.
This involves recognizing negative thought patterns and consciously replacing them with more constructive ones. Cognitive-behavioral strategies can be particularly effective in this regard, helping you to reframe your thoughts and develop a more optimistic perspective.
Additionally, mindfulness practices, such as meditation and deep-breathing exercises, can enhance emotional regulation, reduce stress, and promote a sense of calm and clarity.
Practical Steps to Harness "Mind Over Matter"
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Engaging in regular mindfulness and meditation practices can help you stay grounded and focused, reducing the impact of negative thoughts and emotions. These practices enhance your ability to remain calm and collected, even in stressful situations.
- Positive Affirmations: Incorporate positive affirmations into your daily routine. Affirmations are statements that reinforce a positive self-image and mindset, helping to boost confidence and resilience. For example, repeating phrases like "I am strong" or "I can handle whatever comes my way" can reinforce a resilient mindset.
- Cognitive-Behavioral Techniques: Learn to identify and challenge negative thought patterns. Cognitive-behavioral techniques can help you reframe your thinking, turning obstacles into opportunities for growth. This can involve questioning the validity of negative thoughts and replacing them with more balanced, constructive ones.
- Supportive Relationships: Build and maintain a strong support network. Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive individuals can provide emotional support and practical assistance during tough times. Having a community to rely on can significantly enhance your resilience.
- Goal Setting: Set realistic and achievable goals. Breaking down larger challenges into manageable steps can make them seem less daunting and help you stay focused and motivated. Celebrate your progress along the way to maintain momentum.
Conclusion
"Mind over matter" is more than just a catchy phrase; it's a powerful principle that underscores the incredible potential of the human mind. By cultivating mental resilience, you can navigate life's challenges with greater ease, turning setbacks into opportunities for growth. Through mindfulness, positive affirmations, cognitive-behavioral techniques, supportive relationships, and goal setting, you can harness the power of your mind to overcome physical and mental barriers. In doing so, you not only enhance your well-being but also inspire those around you to recognize and tap into their inner strength.
By integrating these aspects into daily life, prayer can significantly enhance your ability to withstand and recover from adversity, thereby promoting overall mental resilience.
Psalm 23:4 (NIV): "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me."
This verse provides comfort and courage, emphasizing God's presence and protection even in the darkest and most challenging times
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So many times when trying to shed those extra pounds, we truly do wish we got a little better number on the scale. Though getting feel "weightless" is not as easy as holding a few balloons to get a lighter number! Even if you are sticking to a eating plan religiously, you will have hic cups along the way, and even abandon your good intentions because your mind is not in the right frame of thinking.
Why does your mind need to change it's way of thinking to succeed in a new eating plan?
Here are ten mindset shifts that will help you have success.
1. Adopt a Growth Mindset:
SHIFT: View challenges as opportunities to learn and grown rather than insurmountable obstacles.
BENEFIT: Encourages persistence and resilience, helping you stay committed even when faced with setbacks.
2. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection:
SHIFT: Understand that small consistent improvements are more sustainable than striving for perfection.
BENEFIT: Reduces pressure and stress, making it easier to stay on track and avoid feelings of failure.
3. Set Realistic Goals:
SHIFT: Establish attainable and specific goals instead of vague or overly ambitious ones.
BENEFIT: Enhances motivation and provides clear milestones to celebrate along the way.
4. Practice Self-Compassion:
SHIFT: Be kind to yourself when you slip up instead of engaging in negative self-talk
BENEFIT: Maintains a positive attitude and prevents thee guilt and shame that can derail progress
5. Develop a Long-Term Perspective:
SHIFT: View your new eating plan as a lifelong commitment to health rather than a temporary fix.
BENEFIT: Encourages sustainable habits that contribute to lasting weight management.
6. Embrace Mindful Eating:
SHIFT: Pay attention to what, when, and how you eat, rather than eating mindlessly.
BENEFIT: Helps you recognize hunger and fullness cues, leading to healthier eating patterns.
7. Prioritize Self-Care:
SHIFT: Make time for activities that nourish your mind and body, such as sleep, relaxation, and hobbies.
BENEFIT: Reduces stress and emotional eating, promoting overall well-being.
8. Cultivate a Supportive Environment:
SHIFT: Surround yourself with people and resources that encourage and support your goals
BENEFIT: Provides motivation, accountability, and a sense of community, making it easier to stay on track.
9. Visualize Success:
SHIFT: Regularly imagine yourself achieving your goals and enjoying the benefits.
BENEFIT: Reinforces positive behavior and keeps you focused on your desired outcome.
10. Say Flexible and Adaptable:
SHIFT: Be open to adjusting your plan as needed rather than rigidly sticking to a strict regimen.
BENEFIT: Allows you to navigate challenges and changes in circumstances without giving up on your goals.
Each of these ten mindset changes will help you to achieve releasing unwanted weight from your body. All of these mindset shifts can be applied to any goal you have in your life! In fact, I'll bet my bottom dollar you've either read or heard these changes with regards to a business goal, or a financial goal.
CHANGE YOUR MIND AND CHANGE YOUR WORLD!
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Try this exercise to change your mood, or thought, in under a minute.
1. Identify what's the problem, and describe the situation.
2. Choose one feeling word to describe how you feel about the situation.
3. Where in your body that that feeling live?
4. If a Neutral or Positive situation, go to Step 5. If it's a negative situation, listen for what the negative voice says about that feeling or situation.
What did it say?
5. Take one drop of Lavender, Stress Away, and Frankincense in the palm of your hand and rub clockwise. Breathe the oils into the situation you're picturing and into the feeling, and the sensation. Observe what happens.
6. After a few moments of breathing into the oils, and when you are feeling more relaxed, go within and listen for what your Higher Voice/God/Holy Spirit has to say about this situation now. What did it say?
Write any new ideas you have received on a post-it note or a journal and place it somewhere you will see it.
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HAVE AN AWESOME DAY!
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of responsibilities, ambitions, and endless to-do lists. But what happens when God intervenes and calls us to rest? This divine pause can be both challenging and transformative, offering a profound opportunity to reconnect with our true selves and with Him. I had to explore the beauty and purpose behind those moments when God made me rest and discover how to embrace this sacred gift with an open heart and mind.
Six months ago, I had a total knee replacement. I went into this surgery thinking I would recover easily and quickly like I usually do, though it didn't quite go like that. What I didn't realize is that this was one of the top five major traumatic surgeries you can have, and my recovery was going to be anything but painless and quick. I fought hard to get back to my office and what I thought I should be doing. My leg wouldn't tolerate sitting in the chair and my body was recovering from trauma so it wanted to sleep, rest, and recuperate.
MY MIND WAS AT ODDS WITH MY BODY!
I struggled, fought, felt guilty, and even told myself I was just procrastinating! Yet, none of that was true. After a couple of months, I stopped fighting and telling myself what I wasn't or should be doing, and started listening. I realized after praying, and listening, this was a time to "pause" and reflect on exactly what I was doing, and did I need to make yet another change in my life. Of course, just about when I decided to do this, I got the dreaded Covid again and had to rest.
Recognizing the signs that God is calling you to rest can be crucial for maintaining spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being. Here are some common signs that might indicate it's time to pause and rest:
1. Persistent Fatigue
Feeling constantly tired, even after a full night's sleep, can be a signal that you need to slow down and rest. It's a reminder to take care of your body and spirit.
2. Increased Stress and Anxiety
Heightened stress and anxiety levels can be a sign that you're overextending yourself. God might be nudging you to find peace and solace in Him.
3. Illness or Health Issues
Frequent sickness or health problems can be a wake-up call to prioritize rest and self-care. Your body needs time to heal and rejuvenate.
4. Loss of Joy and Passion
When activities that once brought joy and fulfillment start to feel burdensome, it may be time to take a step back and recharge.
5. Difficulty Hearing God's Voice
If you find it hard to hear God's guidance or feel disconnected in your prayer life, it might be a sign that you need quiet, undistracted time with Him.
6. Irritability and Short Temper
Being more irritable or losing patience easily can indicate burnout. It's a signal to slow down and seek peace and rest in God's presence.
7. Lack of Productivity
Struggling to stay focused or productive can be a sign that your mind and body need a break. Rest can help restore clarity and efficiency.
8. Neglect of Personal Relationships
If you notice you're neglecting relationships with family, friends, or even your relationship with God, it might be time to pause and invest in these connections.
9. Feeling Overwhelmed
A sense of being overwhelmed by life's demands is a clear indication that you need to step back, breathe, and rest.
10. Circumstantial Obstacles
Sometimes, circumstances such as canceled plans, delays, or unexpected free time can be God's way of providing you an opportunity to rest.
11. Scriptural Reminders
Coming across Bible verses or teachings that emphasize rest can be a divine reminder to heed this important aspect of spiritual discipline.
12. Inner Promptings
A persistent inner feeling or sense that you need to slow down can be the Holy Spirit urging you to rest and recharge.
13. Nature and Creation
Observing the natural world and its rhythms can be a gentle reminder of the importance of rest and renewal, as even creation itself follows cycles of rest.
Recognizing these signs and responding to them by taking time to rest can help restore balance and find a deeper connection with God. Remember, rest is not a luxury, but a necessary part of a healthy and spiritually fulfilling life.
So, next time you're feeling like you're trying to walk through mud, or pushing on the door so hard it's exhausting, take a moment to reflect and see whether it's time to embrace a Divine pause, rest, and see where God leads you next!
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