Are You Giving Yourself Permission to Shine?

I was talking with my friend Trace, (who is my student and also my co-conspirator,) last night about giving ourselves, and others permission to shine.

Many times we feel we have to strive to get where we want to go, take control of the reins so to speak.

We feel we need to be heard and seen, and just can't trust that if we don't work hard at making our star rise, it will never be seen.

Often this causes frustration, feelings of rejection, hurt, and doubt.

It also brings up past memories of things we might have thought we failed in the past.

It doesn't have to be like that.

It's not meant to be like that.

Take a case in point that Trace and I were putting our heads together about last night.  A client who doesn't like herself right now because of her weight.

She says unkind words to herself constantly and listens to old thoughts that her brain keeps bringing up about how many times she's failed to release weight and find her ideal body.

She is "feeling" hurt because her partner complains they can't travel because of her weight.

And, so the circle of old unwanted thoughts that don't serve her continue to stop her efforts to release the weight as well as the patterns that are keeping her where she is.

What's really happening here is she is not "allowing" herself to be exactly where she is right now, and she's not forgiving herself for past mistakes.

When we don't forgive ourselves, we are not able to allow our true self, the pure consciousness that's God within us, lead, and guide.

Also, when we don't forgive and allow ourselves to operate in pure consciousness, we are more likely to think that others fail to see us as we perceive they should.

We all have a light to shine, some seem brighter than others, but we all still have a light.

Sometimes, we are the ones that are dimming our light because of fear, unforgiveness, and feelings of insecurity that our light needs to shine brighter than everyone else.

How awesome would it be to not only forgive ourselves and others but allow each of us to simply be who we all are at this moment?

Unconditional love, or allowing ourselves and others to be exactly where we are is one of what I call the Foundations of Life.


Because it's what God has asked of us, and when we allow this to flow in our life, abundance and joy follow.

Cease striving and know that I AM GOD!

And yes, there are essential oils that will help you with letting go of old beliefs and patterns that do not serve you anymore.

An essential oil blend that helps to release hurt feelings and negative emotions.  It also helps release negative memories, allowing one to move past emotional barriers and attain higher awareness, assisting the person to forgive and let go.

An essential oil blend that exemplifies the true power of synergy.  Together, all of its component oils are magnified in vibration, creating the drawing, the energy, and frequency of prosperity and plentitude.

Both these oils can be applied topically to inhale, or diffused when you are working on forgiveness to allow all things to shine your life.

There's also going to be a place shortly where you can get a lot of help for all things regarding our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well being.

It's a FB group, a new group that Trace and I are going to be doing together.

Whole Health.

Where Life Coaching meets Health Coaching to address the whole person.

We will be doing two zoom calls this Sunday.  One that will be USA EST 6 a.m. and Australia EST 8 p.m. Sunday, 9th August.

The next will be USA EST, 7 p.m. Sunday, 9th August,  and Australia EST, 9 a.m. Monday 10th August.

Australia is currently 14 hours ahead of us in EST.

I will be sending the zoom link in an email,  and also putting this in the group, Go-Getters.  Don't miss it, you have two opportunities.

Let YOUR light purely shine through the One in you that is love, light, and goodness.

You can always contact me through email, or text.

If you would like to personally chat with me, or experience Life Coaching with essential oils you can click HERE to set that up!


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