Keeping Your Eyes on the Prize




In the journey of life, it's essential to keep our gaze fixed on what lies ahead rather than dwelling on past disappointments. While disappointments are a natural part of the human experience, they need not define our path forward. Instead of allowing setbacks to overshadow our aspirations, we can choose to view them as stepping stones toward growth and resilience. By directing our focus toward our goals, dreams, and aspirations, we channel our energy into constructive endeavors that uplift our spirits and ignite our motivation.

Looking ahead allows us to cultivate a sense of optimism and hope, enabling us to envision a brighter future despite present challenges. Every disappointment we encounter can serve as a valuable lesson, equipping us with wisdom and insights that guide our choices moving forward. When we maintain a forward-looking perspective, we open ourselves up to new opportunities and possibilities that may not have been visible while mired in disappointment. This approach empowers us to adapt, learn, and evolve, transforming setbacks into catalysts for positive change.

While acknowledging disappointments is important, they need not become the focal point of our lives. By training our gaze on the horizon, we tap into our innate resilience and the capacity to overcome obstacles. The road ahead is filled with untapped potential, awaiting our determination and creativity. As we shift our attention from what's behind to what's ahead, we harness the strength to chart our course, embrace the unknown with courage, and carve a path that is shaped by our dreams and aspirations, rather than hindered by past letdowns.

Here are five ways to help you keep your focus on what lies ahead:

  1. Set Clear Goals: Define your short-term and long-term goals. Having specific objectives gives you a clear sense of direction and purpose. When you're focused on achieving these goals, it becomes easier to stay motivated and keep your attention on what's ahead.
  2. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves staying present in the moment, but it also helps in maintaining a balanced perspective on the past and future. By cultivating mindfulness, you can acknowledge past disappointments without allowing them to consume your thoughts. This practice encourages a forward-looking mindset.
  3. Create a Vision Board: Visual representation can be a powerful tool for keeping your focus on your aspirations. Create a vision board with images, quotes, and symbols that represent your goals and dreams. Place it somewhere you'll see it daily, serving as a reminder of what you're working towards.
  4. Develop a Growth Mindset: Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth. A growth mindset encourages you to view setbacks as learning experiences rather than failures. This mindset shift helps you maintain a positive outlook and a forward-focused attitude.
  5. Practice Positive Self-Talk: Monitor your internal dialogue. Replace self-doubt and negative thoughts with positive affirmations that remind you of your capabilities and potential. By nurturing a positive self-image, you're more likely to stay focused on achieving your desired outcomes.  

    Remember that maintaining a forward-looking perspective is a conscious effort that takes time and practice. Regularly revisit your goals, celebrate your progress, and remind yourself of the possibilities that await you on your journey ahead.

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Are you "weighed down" or are you "weightless?"


I recently discovered that my left knee must be surgically replaced if I want to stay active.  Now, I am in good health, and go to the gym, though due to not being able to do my usual walks on the mountain my weight has crept to my upper normals over mid to lower normals.  So, I'm going to do something for myself to get stronger and heal quicker after surgery.  I'm going to challenge myself to get back to a few pounds lighter and to maintain my lower healthier weight.

Maintaining a healthy weight offers numerous benefits that positively impact both physical and mental well-being. Firstly, it reduces the risk of developing chronic diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, and certain types of cancer. By keeping weight within a healthy range, individuals can lower their blood pressure, improve cholesterol levels, and enhance overall cardiovascular health. Additionally, maintaining a healthy weight promotes better joint health, reducing the strain on bones and joints, and lowering the risk of conditions such as arthritis.

Secondly, maintaining a healthy weight has significant psychological advantages. It can boost self-esteem and body image, leading to increased confidence and a positive outlook on life. Regular physical activity, which often accompanies weight maintenance, releases endorphins, improving mood and reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety. 

Moreover, individuals who maintain a healthy weight tend to experience better sleep patterns, increased energy levels, and improved cognitive function, allowing them to perform daily tasks more efficiently and effectively. Overall, maintaining a healthy weight is a holistic approach that supports both physical and mental well-being, leading to a higher quality of life.

Exercise is also extremely important, and even if I cannot walk the distances I am used to doing right now, I am still maintaining an exercise regimen three to five days a week. 

Exercise offers a multitude of benefits that positively impact both physical and mental well-being. Firstly, regular physical activity plays a vital role in maintaining a healthy weight and preventing obesity. Exercise helps burn calories, build muscle mass, and improve metabolism, contributing to weight management. Furthermore, exercise promotes cardiovascular health by strengthening the heart and improving circulation, leading to reduced risks of heart disease, high blood pressure, and stroke. It also helps improve lung function and enhances overall endurance and stamina.

Secondly, exercise has significant mental health benefits. Physical activity stimulates the release of endorphins, often called "feel-good" hormones, which can improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. Regular exercise has been shown to enhance cognitive function, memory, and concentration, leading to improved productivity and mental clarity. 

Moreover, exercise provides a healthy outlet for stress relief, helping to reduce stress levels and promote relaxation. It can also boost self-esteem and body image, fostering a positive sense of self and promoting overall mental well-being. In summary, exercise is a powerful tool that benefits both the body and the mind, leading to improved physical health, increased energy levels, and enhanced emotional well-being.

Here are five ways to start exercising

  1. Set achievable goals: Begin by setting realistic and achievable exercise goals. Start with small steps, such as aiming to exercise for 20 minutes three times a week, and gradually increase the duration and frequency as you build stamina and confidence. Setting achievable goals helps maintain motivation and prevents overwhelm.
  2. Find activities you enjoy: Engaging in physical activities you enjoy makes exercise more enjoyable and sustainable in the long run. Experiment with different activities such as walking, cycling, swimming, dancing, or joining a sports team. Discover what you find fun and fulfilling, and incorporate it into your exercise routine.
  3. Make it a habit: Consistency is key when starting an exercise routine. Schedule dedicated time for exercise in your daily or weekly calendar and treat it as an important commitment. Consider exercising at the same time each day to establish a routine and make it a habit that becomes part of your lifestyle.
  4. Start small and progress gradually: It's essential to start at a comfortable level, especially if you're new to exercise or returning after a long break. Begin with low-impact activities and gradually increase the intensity or duration as your fitness level improves. Listen to your body and don't push yourself too hard initially, as this can lead to injury or burnout.
  5. Get support and accountability: Seek support from friends, family, or a workout buddy who can join you in your exercise journey. Having someone to exercise with can make it more enjoyable and provide mutual encouragement. Additionally, consider joining fitness classes or programs that offer structure, guidance, and accountability to help you stay motivated and committed to your exercise routine.
Maintaining a healthy weight not only benefits your physical health but also plays a crucial role in supporting your emotional well-being. Here are five reasons why maintaining a healthy weight helps your emotions:

  1. Improved self-esteem: Achieving and maintaining a healthy weight can boost your self-esteem and body image. Feeling confident in your physical appearance can positively impact your emotional well-being, leading to increased self-worth and a more positive self-image.
  2. Reduced stress levels: Regular exercise, which is often a part of weight maintenance, releases endorphins, which are known as "feel-good" hormones. These endorphins can help reduce stress levels, promote relaxation, and enhance your overall mood.
  3. Enhanced mental clarity: A healthy weight is often associated with a balanced diet and regular physical activity, both of which contribute to improved cognitive function. Proper nutrition and exercise support brain health, leading to better focus, increased mental clarity, and improved emotional stability.
  4. Increased energy levels: Maintaining a healthy weight can provide you with more energy throughout the day. When your body is fueled with nutritious foods and regular exercise, you are more likely to feel energized and ready to tackle daily tasks. Higher energy levels can contribute to a more positive and optimistic outlook on life.
  5. Better sleep quality: Carrying excess weight can sometimes lead to sleep problems such as sleep apnea or disrupted sleep patterns. By maintaining a healthy weight, you can reduce the risk of these issues and promote better sleep quality. Sufficient, restful sleep is essential for emotional well-being, as it helps regulate mood, improves stress management, and enhances overall emotional resilience.
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Things you should know about the third "C"


Changing our thoughts is crucial for our well-being and overall quality of life and can be downright challenging!  Especially when something has happened to cause stress, worry, and chip away at your beliefs.  This is why the 5 "C's" are useful when one of these situations arises.

Changing negative thoughts is crucial for our well-being and overall quality of life. When we allow negative thoughts to take hold, they can consume us and drain our energy, leading to increased stress, anxiety, and unhappiness. By consciously challenging and transforming negative thoughts into positive ones, we empower ourselves to cultivate a more optimistic outlook on life. 

This shift in mindset opens up a world of possibilities, enabling us to see opportunities where we once saw obstacles. It promotes resilience, self-confidence, and a greater sense of control over our emotions and actions. Ultimately, choosing to change negative thoughts allows us to nurture a healthier and more fulfilling inner dialogue, paving the way for personal growth, improved relationships, and a more positive and joyful existence.

Here are five ways to help change a negative thought into a more positive one:

  1. Awareness and Challenge: Begin by becoming aware of negative thoughts as they arise. Pause and consciously question their validity. Ask yourself if there is evidence to support the negative thought or if there could be alternative perspectives. Challenge the negative thought by replacing it with a positive or more balanced statement.
  2. Reframing: Reframing involves consciously shifting your perspective on a situation. Instead of focusing solely on the negatives, try to find the silver lining or a more constructive angle. Look for opportunities for growth, learning, or gratitude within the situation. Reframing allows you to see the bigger picture and reframe negative experiences as valuable lessons.
  3. Positive Affirmations: Positive affirmations are powerful statements that reinforce positive beliefs about oneself. Choose affirmations that counteract your negative thoughts and repeat them regularly. By affirming positive qualities or outcomes, you can rewire your subconscious mind to embrace more positive and empowering thoughts.
  4. Gratitude Practice: Cultivating a gratitude practice can help shift your focus from negative thoughts to the positive aspects of your life. Each day, take a few moments to reflect on things you are grateful for, whether big or small. This practice promotes a mindset of appreciation and helps counterbalance negative thinking patterns.
  5. Self-Compassion: Negative thoughts often stem from self-criticism and judgment. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding. When negative thoughts arise, remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes and has setbacks. Offer yourself words of encouragement and remind yourself that you are worthy of love and acceptance.
Remember, changing negative thoughts takes time and practice. Be patient and persistent with these techniques, and gradually you'll experience a shift towards more positive thinking patterns.

To help your brain move to a better thought over a negative one, it's essential to practice awareness and active intervention. Start by recognizing when negative thoughts arise and consciously choose to redirect your focus. Engage in activities that bring you joy and promote a positive mindset, such as listening to uplifting music, reading inspirational books, or engaging in creative outlets. 

Challenge negative thoughts by questioning their validity and searching for alternative, more positive perspectives. Replace negative self-talk with encouraging and supportive affirmations. Surround yourself with positive influences and supportive people who can help shift your perspective. 

Finally, practice self-compassion and forgiveness, recognizing that everyone experiences negative thoughts and setbacks. By consistently practicing these strategies, you can train your brain to seek and embrace better thoughts, leading to increased resilience, happiness, and overall well-being.

Here are five ways to help your brain look for better thoughts over negative ones:

  1. Mindfulness and Meditation: Engage in regular mindfulness and meditation practices. These techniques help you observe your thoughts without judgment and create space between you and your negative thoughts. By cultivating a non-reactive and present-moment awareness, you can interrupt negative thought patterns and create room for more positive and constructive thoughts to emerge.
  2. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Surround yourself with positive influences, such as uplifting books, podcasts, and supportive people. Seek out environments that foster positivity and optimism. The more exposure you have to positive ideas and experiences, the more your brain will naturally gravitate towards better thoughts.
  3. Cognitive Restructuring: Cognitive restructuring is a technique that involves challenging and reframing negative thoughts. When a negative thought arises, consciously question its validity and explore alternative perspectives. Look for evidence that contradicts the negative thought and reframe it into a more positive or balanced statement. Practice this regularly to rewire your brain to seek out better thoughts.
  4. Gratitude Practice: Cultivate a daily gratitude practice. Regularly acknowledge and appreciate the positive aspects of your life, no matter how small. This practice rewires your brain to focus on the good, helping it naturally seek out and generate better thoughts. Consider keeping a gratitude journal or sharing your gratitude with others to enhance the benefits.
  5. Engage in Positive Self-Talk: Pay attention to your internal dialogue and consciously replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations and supportive statements. Be kind and compassionate towards yourself, and consciously choose thoughts that uplift and encourage you. Over time, your brain will learn to default to more positive thoughts and beliefs.
Remember, changing your thought patterns takes time and effort. Be patient and consistent with these practices, and you'll gradually train your brain to seek out better thoughts over negative ones.

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Are you sick of that old habit? It's time for a CHANGE!


Changing old habits and creating new ones can be a challenging but rewarding process. The key to success is to understand the habit loop and use it to your advantage. The habit loop consists of a cue, a routine, and a reward. The cue is the trigger that initiates the habit, the routine is the behavior or action that follows, and the reward is the positive outcome that reinforces the habit. To change an old habit, you need to identify the cue, find a new routine that satisfies the same reward, and repeat it until it becomes a new habit.

One effective way to change old habits and create new ones is to start small. Instead of trying to change everything at once, focus on one habit and work on it consistently. It's easier to make small changes that are sustainable over time than to try to make big changes that may be too overwhelming. For example, if you want to start exercising regularly, start with a 10-minute walk every day and gradually increase the duration and intensity of your workouts.

Another helpful strategy for changing old habits and creating new ones is to enlist support from others. Surround yourself with people who have similar goals and habits, and who will encourage and motivate you. You can also find an accountability partner who will hold you accountable for your actions and provide feedback and support when needed. Having a support system can make the habit change process more enjoyable and rewarding, and increase your chances of success.


Identifying triggers that initiate behavior we want to change is an essential step towards changing those behaviors. Triggers are the cues or signals that initiate the behavior we want to change, and they can be internal or external. Internal triggers are thoughts, feelings, or physical sensations that lead to the behavior, while external triggers are environmental cues that prompt the behavior. To identify triggers, it's important to pay close attention to our thoughts, feelings, and actions in different situations.

One effective way to identify triggers is to keep a journal or record of the behavior you want to change. Write down the date, time, and location of the behavior, as well as any thoughts, feelings, or physical sensations that occurred before and after the behavior. This will help you identify patterns and triggers that are associated with the behavior. For example, if you notice that you always eat junk food when you're feeling stressed, the trigger for your behavior may be stress.
Another helpful strategy for identifying triggers is to ask yourself questions that help you explore the reasons behind the behavior. For example, you can ask yourself, "What am I feeling right now?" "What thoughts are going through my mind?" "What events or situations led to this behavior?" By asking these questions, you can gain insight into the triggers that are leading to the behavior you want to change.

Finally, it can be helpful to seek feedback from others. Ask friends or family members to observe your behavior and provide feedback on what they notice. They may be able to identify triggers that you haven't noticed or provide a different perspective on the behavior you want to change.

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10 Tips on applying The Law Of Detachment

“Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.” —Tony Robbins


Today's blog is about the Law of Detachment. This is the sixth law in the Universal laws and is so important. You see, in order to acquire anything in the physical Universe, you must relinquish your attachment to it. Thus, trust God totally for your desires at the perfect time.

When we apply this law we have the freedom to leave everything as is, and the freedom to participate without attachment to an idea, a solution, or a goal.
So what are some indications that we are holding on to our desires, or outcomes, and not letting them be in the hands of the Spirit?

What are five indications that we are holding on to our goals, dreams, and desires too tightly?
  1. You constantly think about it and ruminate on it at all times.
  2. You become frustrated and impatient when things don't happen as quickly as you'd like.
  3. You become inflexible and unwilling to consider other options.
  4. You become overly focused on the outcome rather than the process.
  5. You become so obsessed with it that it begins to affect your relationships and other areas of your life.
I'm sure you've experienced some of these five indications in life, and if you find that you are in the midst of one of these, there is hope and a way to change your outcome. When we constantly think about a specific desire and are controlling the outcome, we are limiting the flow of the Universe and God in the direction and result of our desire.

Focusing on the process or the steps that are needed to achieve your desire will leave the outcome unlimited, and may end up so much better than you originally dreamed. Think about how often you've had a desire that when you started along the journey, it opened up to something greater than you ever dreamed possible. When we leave the outcome to Spirit (God) it takes on a greater vision, one that we aren't capable of seeing in the beginning.

Here are 5 tips to apply the Law of Detachment
  1. Take time for self-reflection. Before applying the Law of Detachment, it's important to take time to reflect on your own behavior, emotions, and reactions. Ask yourself what is causing you to be attached to certain people, situations, or outcomes.
  2. Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness can help you be more aware of your thoughts and feelings in each moment, so you can better practice the Law of Detachment.
  3. Let go of expectations. The Law of Detachment is about releasing your expectations from a situation and allowing it to unfold naturally.
  4. Be grateful for what you have. Gratitude can help you put things into perspective and be thankful for the things you have instead of focusing on what you don't have.
  5. Don't be hard on yourself. Remember that it takes practice to learn how to detach and let go of things. Don't be too hard on yourself if you find it challenging at first.
While applying this law needs practice it is well worth being aware of it in your life. All of the seven laws do work together hand in hand and support us to create the life that we truly desire.
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