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10 Tips on how to practice the Law of Allowing!



The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain. 
Dolly Parton Singer-Songwriter

The Law of Allowing is the principle of no resistance meaning take the least action, and hold space. It's about accepting yourself and others without criticism or judgment.

The law of allowing is a spiritual principle that states that we must allow ourselves to receive the good that is available to us in order for it to manifest in our lives. This law states that when we open ourselves up to the abundance that is available to us, we will be able to manifest our desires. By allowing ourselves to receive, we create an energetic space for the good that we want to receive to come into our lives. The law of allowing can be applied to all areas of life, from relationships to finances, and is a powerful tool for manifesting the life that we desire.

What does it mean to hold space? Holding space is a practice of creating a safe and supportive environment for someone, without judgment or expectations. It’s about being present and attentive to the needs of another person and listening with an open mind and heart. It’s about offering empathy, understanding, and compassion so that the person can go through their experience without feeling alone and can come out of it feeling seen, heard, and supported.

Here are 5 tips on practicing the Law of Allowing

  • Start each day with a few moments of mindfulness. Take time to focus on your breathing and be aware of the present moment. This will help you cultivate a sense of peace and acceptance that will be beneficial when practicing the Law of Allowing. 
  • Spend some time reflecting on what it means to allow. Ask yourself questions like: What does it mean to allow? How can I let go of my attachments and expectations? How can I be more open to the possibilities of the universe?
  • Set an intention to practice the Law of Allowing. Remind yourself throughout the day that you are choosing to allow. This will help you stay focused and cultivate a sense of trust in the universe.
  • Take time to appreciate the beauty of the world around you. Acknowledge the perfection of the present moment and be thankful for all that you have. This will help you cultivate a sense of gratitude and surrender to the flow of life.
  • Practice non-attachment. Let go of expectations and attachments and be open to the possibilities of the present moment. Don't become too attached to any one outcome and trust that the universe has a plan for you.
When you are not allowing others to be who they are as well as not allowing yourself to be the person you were created to be, this is called resistance.

What is resistance?

When you are not allowing others to be who they are as well as not allowing yourself to be the person you were created to be, this is called resistance.
Resistance is a force or action that opposes or impedes something. It can be used to describe a physical force, such as an object that is pushing against another object, or an abstract concept, such as opposition to a particular idea or policy. In physics, resistance is a measure of the opposition to electrical current flow in an electrical circuit. In chemistry, it can be used to describe the extent to which a substance resists a change in its physical or chemical properties. In biology, resistance is the ability of a species to survive in a particular environment.

Here are five ways that resistance shows up emotionally and stops us from practicing the Law of Allowing.

  • Fear of the unknown: We may feel overwhelmed by the prospect of letting go of control and allowing things to happen naturally. This can lead to feelings of anxiety and insecurity.
  • Self-doubt: We may feel that we are not capable of allowing things to happen in our lives, which can lead to feelings of low self-esteem and a lack of confidence.
  • Guilt: We may feel guilty for not doing enough or for not taking action, which can lead to feelings of shame or regret.
  • Unworthiness: We may feel that we are not deserving of having the things we want in our lives, which can lead to feelings of unworthiness and low self-worth.
  • Anger: We may feel frustrated and resentful that things are not happening as quickly as we would like them to, which can lead to feelings of anger and resentment.
This takes time and practice though there are Essential Oils that will help you keep your thoughts and emotions in alignment. I prefer Young Living Oils because of their Seed to Seal. 

The Oils I recommend are Frankincense, Lavender, Stress Away, and Forgiveness. Here's a link to purchase those HERE!  

That's it for today! Go and grab my free resource "5 Steps to Intentional Change"  HERE!


10 Tips on How to Have It All!

“You can have it all. Just not all at once.” — Oprah Winfrey



It's not impossible to "have it all" though most of the time it's easy to feel like you can't. In my experience, I know that re-programming the "superwoman mentality" that is in all of us at a young age, is sort of normal and happens because our parents worry about us hurting ourselves, or getting in over our heads. I love the song "Always Trust Your Cape" written by Guy Clark because it's a story of trusting our inner being and our instincts.

The Law of Deliberate Creation says we can have it all, though there are some parameters that need to be in place. I know that if my mind is in a negative place, I will not be trusting my instincts or my cape, I'll be doubting them. In fact, I may not even start to deliberately create what I desire because my belief is not at the same level, therefore I'm sabotaging myself to even start let alone create. So, how do you get back into a positive frame of mind to create what you desire?  Here are five tips to help you.

5 tips on not creating from a negative place

  • Acknowledge your feelings: Allow yourself to feel your negative emotions. Acknowledge them and don’t suppress them.
  • Reframe the situation: Find a positive spin on what initially appeared to be a negative situation. 
  • Ask for help: Don’t be afraid to reach out to others for support. Having someone to talk to can help you work through your emotions and gain perspective.
  • Use art to express yourself: Creating art can be a great way to express your emotions and process your thoughts.
  • Keep your eye on the big picture: Even though it might be hard to see past the current situation, try to remember that things will eventually get better. Focus on your long-term goals and the positive aspects of your life.

The laws of the Universe work together and just as the Law of Attraction says what we focus on expands, it ties into the Law of Deliberate Creation. Because we create from our focus even when that focus is on the negative side of things. When you start to focus on what you desire, you are applying the Law of Deliberate Creation. 

There's no judgment on what you create, though there are consequences to your intent. Being in full alignment is necessary, so it's important to release any limiting conditions or resistance, so you are giving off the vibration you desire. Here are five tips on how to create and manifest your desire using this law.

5 tips on the Law of Deliberate Creation

  • Visualize your desired outcome: Take time to imagine exactly what you want to manifest in your life. Visualizing your desired outcome helps to manifest it into reality.
  • Believe in yourself and your power to create: Affirm that you have the power to create the life you want and believe in yourself.
  • Be clear about what you want: Take the time to understand what it is that you truly want and be as specific as possible.
  • Take action: Take actionable steps to bring your desired outcome into reality.
  • Let go of the outcome: Release any attachment to the outcome and trust that you will achieve it. Make sure to stay focused on the present moment and enjoy the process.

I practice "The Belief Equation" because when your desire and your belief are at the same level of vibration, you will achieve your dreams and goals. More about that in a future book!

Essential Oils to use when needing to focus and align with your desires are Lavender, Lemon, and Magnify Your Purpose.  You can get them HERE!

And, to get my freebie, "5 Steps to Intentional Change" go HERE!

That's it for today!

Remember, always be a Tigger!

Ta Ta for now......................












Ten tips on how to get out of the rut!



Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results................. Willie Nelson.


Everyone can have negative thoughts and do them on a regular basis, though dwelling on them can lead to becoming stuck in them and causing us to be frustrated, overwhelmed, and derailed in our goals and dreams. Changing thoughts can be challenging if you have a tendency to focus on where you've been instead of where you want to go.

Here are a few tips on how you can change your thoughts.

Five tips for changing negative thoughts.
  1. Take a few moments to acknowledge the thoughts and feelings that come up. Recognizing them as valid can help you take a step back and let the thoughts pass.
  2. When you start to have negative thoughts, challenge them with positive statements. For example, if your thought is “I’m not good enough,” you can challenge it by saying “I am capable and strong.”
  3. Stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone has their own unique strengths and weaknesses, and comparing yourself to someone else’s successes or failures won’t help you.
  4. Find a distraction. Doing something that requires all your focus, such as a puzzle or a new
    hobby can help you forget about negative thoughts and replace them with something positive.
  5. Talk to someone you trust.  Talking about your negative thoughts can help you gain perspective and feel supported.  A friend or a Life Coach can help you look at the situation differently and find a healthier way of thinking.
Getting stuck generally means we are focused on what we don't want. The Universal Law of Attraction states that what you focus on expands, whether that be negative or positive. This law is at work whether you are aware of it or not and may be the reason you are beating yourself up over not achieving your desire, and not believing you can.



How do I focus on what I want instead of what I don't want?

Focusing on what you want instead of what you don't want is a great way to manifest the life you desire. Here are a few tips to get you started:
  1. Identify what you want: Spend some time writing down or visualizing the specific things you want to experience in life.
  2. Visualize your goals: Spend a few minutes each day visualizing those goals and how achieving them would make you feel.
  3. Take action: Take small steps every day to move closer to achieving your goals.
  4. Stay positive: When you find yourself focusing on what you don't want, take a deep
    breath and refocus on what you do want.
  5. Celebrate successes: Celebrate the small successes along the way, as they will help keep
    your focus on the positive.

By following these tips, you'll be well on your way to manifesting the life of your dreams!

That's it for today. You can get my freebie "Five Steps to Intentional Change" HERE!


Why the heck is it so hard to change?


Change is inevitable.

Even if you resist change, it will still happen.

So why wait, or fret about changes that happen in your life?

Over the last couple of years, a lot has changed in my life.  Some changes for the better, some not so good.

For instance, once upon a time, I was naive enough to think that there were some things that would never change. Things like, I would move in the same circle of friends, I would continue down the same path in my career, I would never think of moving or selling my home, and I was staying in my church forever.

If you relate to any of that then you know that change happens whether you like it or not.  Friends suddenly move on, that career becomes not what you envisioned, and the Universe has a different plan that is not in a direction you can even imagine.

The most important thing to realize about change is its growth!  It's learning to flow with the stream instead of fighting against the tide.

It's understanding that you may grow in a different direction from friends and colleagues and when that happens it's OK to make new friends and new contacts.

Moving and changing to grow and expand is part of fulfilling your purpose.

So, why the heck is it so hard to change?

There are a couple of things:

1.  Old habits are hard to shake.

2. You have an enormous desire, though you don't know how to make it happen so you don't make a move.

3. You don't believe that your dreams and goals can really happen.

4. You are afraid of failure and the repercussions that you perceive come with that.

5.  You think you need to be perfect before you can achieve your goals and dreams.

All of these reasons are just thoughts coming from feelings that are preventing you from moving forward, changing your present, to achieve your future.


If this sounds like you, I can help you.

First grab my free resource The 5 Steps to Intentional Change.  HERE!

Then book a free consult with me and lets get you moving and embracing change in your life! HERE!


Have a great day!

How do I get unstuck?


How do you feel when you get stuck?

Do you feel overwhelmed, burned out, or just lose your motivation and inspiration?

I'm here to tell you don't beat yourself up because everyone at some point in their journey gets stuck.

There are ways to get unstuck and out of overwhelm and they're not as difficult as you might think.

These past couple of months have been a little tough in my household.  When you have a large family something is always going on, and when it's two or more then it can get a little hairy.  By that I mean, challenging!

So, how do I cope?  I'm going to give you some very easy things that I do that can get you back on track with your goals, dreams, relationships, and your life!

1.  The first thing is don't beat yourself up.  It's OK to pause!  By pause I mean take a breath.  Get off social media, or get on and have fun whichever one is less stressful.  SM can get overwhelming if you are using it for your biz, and not seeing the results you want.  Then again, it can be fun to do some silly reels and also watch some!

2.  Don't hustle all the time.  Consistency is what pays off.  That's in all areas of your life.  After cooking meals for my family for decades, I have to remind myself it's ok to let them cook.  They are all adults and CAN fend for themselves.  If you are cooking, enjoy it!  Take the time to enjoy making that new recipe and take in all the wonderful smells of the seasonings and veggies you are chopping and dicing.

3.  Do take time to meditate and/or pray.  I get stuck mainly because my mind gets cluttered and I don't have clarity.  When I recognize that, I immediately get out my Young Living Essential Oils and grab one that appeals to me as well as one I know will help clear my thoughts.  Using Essential Oils will help you get unstuck much faster than if you don't use them.

Remember feeling stuck or overwhelmed comes from your thoughts.  Changing your thoughts and clearing your mind will immediately get you going in the direction you want to again.


One thing to remember here is our thoughts attract similar thoughts.  So, if I am having low vibrating thoughts then that's where my mind is going to continue going unless I stop it.

Here's a link to a freebie S.T.O.P. that will help you from getting stuck in the first place!

Have an awesome week!
 
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Meet Kate Penwarn Thompson

 




DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?



You know when you feel you're emotionally strong but you keep struggling with your weight and lifestyle habits? And, you really want to get out of this rut, move forward, and make positive changes in your life. Your deepest desire is to cut loose from emotions that keep you stuck and get moving and doing in a life you love.


Hey, lovely, whether you're struggling with weight, finances, exes, or everyday events, I can help you find your genius talent and have the confidence to get moving again.   We can do this together.


I  help women who are unhappy juggling life and family get back on track in one hour a week with my proven plan of success of using essential oils.

You don’t have to wait……………you can have it all.



My Story:



I've been through many life-changing moves in my life.  It started with getting a divorce more than a couple of decades ago which changed the whole path to my future.  I left my marriage and got divorced when I was twenty-eight years old with two small children.



I didn't have a job, I was a stay-at-home mum. I hadn't been employed in the workplace for nearly five years and the small allowance given by Social Services was not even close to being able to support me or my kids. In fact, I was pretty broke!



The only other income I had was literally singing for my supper. I was a well-known Singer/Actress in a very popular group at the time and if not for a couple of jobs I managed to get every week singing, I'm not sure how we would have survived.



But, instead of getting bogged down wondering how I was going to support myself and my kids, I used my genius talent and left that divorce behind me. It turned out my divorce made me incredibly strong and independent again.  I got moving and doing on to the life I always wanted to create.



I kicked my ex out and started my new life!



I started my new life feeling free even though finances were a bit of a struggle.  But, because I  believed I could make it all work, it did.  Money was not as much as I would have liked, but it was there when I needed it and I was happy. I missed a meal or two, or three or four, but the kids were fed and I needed to lose a few pounds anyway!



After that came lots of changes.  I attracted my soul mate, got married, and became pregnant almost immediately.  When I was seven months along, my amazing hubby left his cushy Public Service job and started a business.  Never regretted it!



A new path began again!



Suddenly, we were generating our own income which should have been a little scary, but once again I always believed we would succeed, and guess what?  We did!



The business was booming and all was well when our worst nightmare came true.  Our business manager spent every penny of the company's money and left the country.  We were back to square one with a huge debt, and now four kids.



Well, with income being very scarce, I decided I needed to earn some income.  I'd only worked as a professional entertainer for years and had let that lapse a bit having had two extra children in the first two years we were married.  I had to work around them, and leave room for amazing hubby to start again as well.



You won't believe my next move!



I decided to become an Avon Lady. You know, ding dong, door to door, selling out of that little book that came out every three weeks! I think my hubby rolled on the floor laughing, but not for long. You see, I believed I would succeed and succeed I did.  I put my genius talent to work again, and in three months I was one of the top three sales representatives in the State.



Within six months, I was asked to be a Stand-In Manager and manage an Avon District for a Manager on leave.  About twelve months into my little adventure, I was hired by Corporate Avon in Australia as a Manager with my own District,  salary, expense account, and my own car.  I wasn't bringing home two bob anymore, I was a contributor to the family income.



That was the good part. The hard part was my new District was #Thirty out of Thirty-three in the state.  I had my work cut out for me. Well, I'm here to tell you that in six months my District was #Three and nobody was laughing anymore!



My hubby built another Consulting business while I worked at Avon and we were once again back to being abundant in all areas of our life.  The Law of Attraction and Deliberate Creation in action!  We didn't even know these Laws of the Universe were at work in our lives, we just believed in our genius talent!



The surprise move that came next!



Over the next few years, we were financially stable again and I resigned from what had become a grueling time-sucking job at Avon and moved back into the entertainment industry.  During this time amazing brilliant hubby had come up with the idea to write one of the first Anti-Virus programs for computers in the world.



Well, life got pretty sweet, and we were rolling along on the golf course in Brisbane most days when he asked me about a big surprise move!  How did I feel about moving to America?  I never hesitated.  Woo Hoo! I was totally in. 



We began to pack up what we could take with us, our clothes, furniture, my piano and called the movers.  We rented the house, said good-bye and hubby, myself and four kids with half a suitcase each, boarded a plane one Saturday morning in January to start our new adventure.



Everyone thought we were crazy but I knew this was one of the most amazing kick-butt moves I'd ever made in my life.



Then reality set in and I found another new path!



When I actually moved countries, I had become very successful as both a songwriter and performer in my hometown. It never occurred to me that I would not continue my professional music and acting career, but the struggle to re-establish myself was real and after few years I realized that I had to change paths yet again.



I took a year to just find myself and then a whisper came to my ear about adopting a child that needed a home from foster care.  It moved very quickly from a thought to an actuality.  Within a couple of days, we were in a ten-week course for foster/adoptive parents.  We found pure potential when we had no clue that the ability or desire to do this lay deep inside of us. This became one of the most rewarding and fulfilling journeys in my life.



At the end of that ten weeks, I got a phone call and our new family began.  Twin boys, twenty-months old came for the weekend and stayed forever.  They were the first of about fifty foster children and the beginning of adopting eight children, which includes three sets of twins!



I loved my journey of being a foster/adoptive parent, but our house got full to overflowing, and even though most of our children are grown now, I am still an advocate and resource for Foster/Adoptive Parents.



How I decided to become a multi certified Life/Health Coach.



Many of our new children had been born drug and alcohol addicted, so I dealt with many different physical and mental issues that emerged in them as they began to grow up. I spent hours with our children in therapies of all kinds.



While dealing with Physical, Occupational, Speech Therapy, and a few psychiatrists along the way, I learned coping skills for managing different disabilities, and mental illnesses.  I also learned how to have a good relationship with birth families in difficult circumstances.



I also had an older family who was going through teenage years and found myself the local mom and counselor. Many a teenager came into our home crying and left feeling better about themselves and their situation. Although I was technically being a Life Coach to those kids, I didn't officially gain my certifications until much later



In the last couple of decades, I've been constantly changing the path of my life and being successful at doing so. I've also realized that change for some is not easy and making a major move in life can leave you overwhelmed, and exhausted, unable to deal with the feelings around it.



I've also worked with foster and adoptive parents for the last twenty years, who also have to move on when a child is moved to a different placement, and their feelings are very similar to the emotions surrounding any life change.



As well, I've since been touched by divorce in my older adult children's lives.  The biggest stumbling block they've had is moving on to their new life after divorce.



As I 've been there supporting them through their pain, I realized that I wanted to help others find their genius talent to get doing and moving and get their emotional energy flowing again. Through coaching, especially Seven + Seven Essentials, I love seeing them find their new life of joy and happiness.  I love working as a coach alongside essential oils, as the breakthroughs come so much faster when the power of oils is added.  

As a certified Aroma Freedom Technique Practioner, I have not only found the power of healing the mind with oils, but also healing the body.  

I'm a certified Life Coach in Causal Coaching, Law Of Attraction, Money, Health, and Essential Oils. I find that most women who have left marriage not only have emotions surrounding it but quite often now battle with their health and their finances. I triumphed over all of these issues, I moved on and never looked back. I can help you.



Where I am today.



Today, I am a confident mother of twelve children, a partner to an amazing man, and stepping out into everything the Universe and God have for me.  I value myself as a businesswoman, a wife, a mother, and no longer fear a change in direction.  I embrace all parts of me, creative, physical, mental, spiritual, and nourish each part of myself, with self-coaching, nutrition, and the power of essential oils.



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